Heather, an independent living coordinator here at OSCIL, recently retired her first guide dog so that she could get a new one. She has graciously shared her experience, giving a glimpse into the unique relationship between her and her four-legged companions.
Retiring a first guide dog is never easy. After nearly eight years of partnership with my first guide dog, Asher, it became clear that he was ready for retirement. His subtle cues— showing signs of fatigue during our meetings or preferring to lounge on the couch instead of putting on his harness signaled that he was ready to slow down. Each guide dog communicates their readiness for retirement in their unique way, and these were a couple of Asher’s signs.
Deciding to apply for a successor guide dog is a challenging decision, particularly when transitioning from your first to your second. The process is difficult to begin because the working relationship between me and my first guide is impeccable and the bond is incredibly strong… to face not being able to work with him was emotionally draining. It took me some time to complete the application, but I am grateful that I persevered.
I am fortunate to be able to keep Asher in retirement. For those who might face restrictions, such as living in pet-free apartments or financial constraints, there are options available. One can either find a friend or family member to adopt the retired dog or seek assistance from the school, which can help find a suitable new home.
My initial experience with Guiding Eyes for the Blind in Yorktown Heights, NY, was exceptional. The training I received in 2017, coupled with the dedication of the trainers and the perfect match of me with Asher, made me confident that I would return for my second guide dog.
I was thrilled to learn that I was approved and had a spot in the July 8, 2024, class. Though I was informed it could take 3-6 months to match me with a dog, the process was remarkably swift, taking just 3 weeks!
Guiding Eyes offers a comprehensive two-week training program, accommodating a maximum of six students. Personalized attention, with two students per trainer, ensures a highly effective learning environment. Students arrive on Monday and during the first day students get to walk with a guide dog that may or may not be theirs. It is to see if the match is correct. Then on Tuesday, which is called doggie day… where you learn the name of your guide dog; it is the day to get to know your dog and take time to bond. This day students also learn about basic obedience training skills. We get to start working routes on Wednesday and that is walking in the community learning how a guide dog assists with safe travel. The entire experience, from the exceptional trainers and support staff to the skilled veterinary clinic, is unparalleled. The support extends beyond training; Guiding Eyes provides $600 annually toward veterinary expenses and offers additional emergency funds for graduates. This generous support, funded entirely by donations, significantly alleviates the financial burden of caring for our guide dogs. Guiding Eyes also has field representatives that are trainers and are always available to come to a student’s home to assist with any further training that might be needed.
Having been home with my new guide dog, Darby, for a few weeks now, I am excited about our journey together. Darby, a male yellow lab, and I are still getting to know each other, and I am thoroughly enjoying the process of teaching him new places to recognize and strengthening our bond together.
A fun note, Asher loves having a baby brother! He and Darby have already formed a close bond, becoming fast friends.
I look forward to embarking on this new chapter with Darby and am eager to see what adventures lie ahead for us!
As a center for independent living, OSCIL maintains at least 51% staffing by people with disabilities. Having such a diverse staff of varying backgrounds and disabilities allows us to truly identify with the lived experience of our consumers. Through this blog, as well as our social media channels, advocacy, and outreach efforts, we work to share these experiences and foster a more aware and inclusive community.
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